I have sat here unable to even put into words how just a few words of hers can set me off. It hurts me 1) because I feel like she's pushing blame and guilt on to me and 2) because I feel as if she's calling me a liar. It angers me for the same reasons and also because I don't understand how someone can never bother to have any part in your life and then all of a sudden feel entitled. Does anyone else get a sense of entitlement from these few words? Maybe it's just me.
To me, love is so much more than saying 'I loved you and always have loved you'. There has to be action behind those words. It took everything in me not to send a very angry message back saying "you NEVER cut me from your life?! NEVER?!" because in my mind, that's all she's done.
How would you treat the situation? I don't know what to say because I know, right now, the only words my heart can find are full of anger and hurt. God commands us to forgive but I don't think He wants us to give forgiveness and then put ourselves back into situations where we know we'll be hurt again. Am I wrong about that? I could use some guidance here.